This is very interesting article about knowing if our partners are hiding something in the closet that we are afraid to see. There are many relationships in the world that ended just because of the guy is cheating or the guy did something undesirable to the gal. …Click here to read more
TOP TEN SIGNS OF A BAD RELATIONSHIP
There are a myriad of ways to tell when a you are in a bad relationship. Ten Ways You are in a Bad Relationship will address the ones that are general in most relationships.When both people in the relationship recognize that the relationship is bad, then the healing of hurt feelings and forgiveness can begin. …Click here to read more
HOW TO BE A PERFECT GIRLFRIEND
There are many many reasons to stop eating meat. Nutritional, environmental, cruelty free living reasons. Global meat consumption has increased from under 50 million tons annually to over 200 million tons in the last 50 years. The amount of animal manure produced in the U.S. is 130 times greater than the amount of human waste. This is causing more environmental and health problems than ever seen before. Here are 15 good reasons to stop eating meat (or at least cut down):
Health Reasons
1. Lower risk of cancer. The Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine has reported that vegetarians are less likely to get cancer by 25 to 50 percent.
2. Lower risk of heart disease. Researchers Dr. Dean Ornish and Dr. Caldwell Esselstyn have a program that includes a vegetarian diet and is currently one of the few programs that has been proven to reverse heart disease. A vegetarian diet reduces cholesterol.
3. Lower risk of osteoporosis. Studies have shown that too much protein in our diet causes loss of bone calcium. Meat eaters generally get far more protein than they need or can use.
4. Lower risk of kidney and gallstones. The calcium leached from the bones by the body’s efforts to neutralize the acids produce by too much protein intake can end up forming kidney stones and gall stones.
5. Factory farmed animals carry disease. According to the FDA poultry is the number one source of food-borne illness. Despite the heavy use of pesticides and antibiotics, up to 60% percent of chickens sold at the supermarket are infected with live salmonella bacteria. Approximately 30% of all pork products are contaminated with toxoplasmosis. We are increasingly at risk from highly contagious diseases like Mad Cow Disease and Foot and Mouth disease in sheep and cattle.
6. Factory-farmed animals contain toxic chemicals. Meat contains accumulations of pesticides and other chemicals up to 14 times more concentrated than those in plant foods. Half of all antibiotics used in the U.S. are used in farm animals and 90% of those are not used to treat infections but are instead used as growth promoters.
Environmental Reasons
7. Inefficient use of agriculture. 70% of U.S. grain production is used to feed farm animals. The grains and soybeans fed to animals to produce the amount of meat consumed by the average American in one year could feed seven people for the same period.
8. Inefficient use of water. It takes 2640 gallons of water to produce one pound of edible beef. The water used to raise animals for food is more than half the water used in the United States.
9. Inefficient use of energy.
Calories of fossil fuel needed to produce 1 calorie of protein in beef: 28.
Calories of fossil fuel needed to produce 1 calorie of protein in soybeans: 2.
10. Environmental Pollution. Raising animals for food is the biggest polluter of our water and topsoil. Factory farm animal waste pollutes the ground and groundwater horribly.
11. Destruction of natural habitat. It takes more land to raise animals for food than it does to produce the equivalent nutritional value by raising edible plants. Rain forests are being destroyed to make room for huge cattle ranches. Coyotes and other animals are poisoned and shot by western cattle ranchers who consider federal land to be their land for grazing.
Animal Rights Reasons
12. Animals on factory farms are over-crowded. They spend their brief lives in crowded and ammonia-filled conditions, many of them so cramped that they can’t even turn around or spread a wing.
13. Animals on factory farms are tortured. Within days of birth, for example, chickens have their beaks seared off with a hot blade. Animals are hung upside down and their throats are sliced open, often while they’re fully conscious.
14. Animals on factory farms are treated like machines. They are pumped up with drugs, fed their own waste and forced to grow or produce as fast as possible. They are subjected to 24-hour artificial lighting while being crammed into tiny cages one on top of the other to make it easier to harvest.
15. We don’t need to eat animals! Most of us in the U.S. don’t eat animals because we must in order to survive. We eat them because we want to. We are subjecting animals to torture, damaging the environment unnecessarily and subjecting ourselves to greater risk of disease just to satisfy a desire, not a need.
You can get a totally balanced diet without eating meat. All vegetables contain protein and too much protein consumption is unhealthy. Grains, legumes and soybeans contain plenty of protein. Vegetarian foods do not have to be boring. Spice it up! For example, veggies and rice with some Teriyaki sauce is delicious and as filling as any meat dish you can think of while being far more healthy for you and easier on animals and the environment. Why not give a vegan diet a try and give our environment a break. Your body will thank you and so will the Earth!
There are many many reasons to stop eating meat. Nutritional, environmental, cruelty free living reasons. Global meat consumption has increased from under 50 million tons annually to over 200 million tons in the last 50 years. The amount of animal manure produced in the U.S. is 130 times greater than the amount of human waste. This is causing more environmental and health problems than ever seen before. Here are 15 good reasons to stop eating meat (or at least cut down):
Health Reasons
1. Lower risk of cancer. The Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine has reported that vegetarians are less likely to get cancer by 25 to 50 percent.
2. Lower risk of heart disease. Researchers Dr. Dean Ornish and Dr. Caldwell Esselstyn have a program that includes a vegetarian diet and is currently one of the few programs that has been proven to reverse heart disease. A vegetarian diet reduces cholesterol.
3. Lower risk of osteoporosis. Studies have shown that too much protein in our diet causes loss of bone calcium. Meat eaters generally get far more protein than they need or can use.
4. Lower risk of kidney and gallstones. The calcium leached from the bones by the body’s efforts to neutralize the acids produce by too much protein intake can end up forming kidney stones and gall stones.
5. Factory farmed animals carry disease. According to the FDA poultry is the number one source of food-borne illness. Despite the heavy use of pesticides and antibiotics, up to 60% percent of chickens sold at the supermarket are infected with live salmonella bacteria. Approximately 30% of all pork products are contaminated with toxoplasmosis. We are increasingly at risk from highly contagious diseases like Mad Cow Disease and Foot and Mouth disease in sheep and cattle.
6. Factory-farmed animals contain toxic chemicals. Meat contains accumulations of pesticides and other chemicals up to 14 times more concentrated than those in plant foods. Half of all antibiotics used in the U.S. are used in farm animals and 90% of those are not used to treat infections but are instead used as growth promoters.
Environmental Reasons
7. Inefficient use of agriculture. 70% of U.S. grain production is used to feed farm animals. The grains and soybeans fed to animals to produce the amount of meat consumed by the average American in one year could feed seven people for the same period.
8. Inefficient use of water. It takes 2640 gallons of water to produce one pound of edible beef. The water used to raise animals for food is more than half the water used in the United States.
9. Inefficient use of energy.
Calories of fossil fuel needed to produce 1 calorie of protein in beef: 28.
Calories of fossil fuel needed to produce 1 calorie of protein in soybeans: 2.
10. Environmental Pollution. Raising animals for food is the biggest polluter of our water and topsoil. Factory farm animal waste pollutes the ground and groundwater horribly.
11. Destruction of natural habitat. It takes more land to raise animals for food than it does to produce the equivalent nutritional value by raising edible plants. Rain forests are being destroyed to make room for huge cattle ranches. Coyotes and other animals are poisoned and shot by western cattle ranchers who consider federal land to be their land for grazing.
Animal Rights Reasons
12. Animals on factory farms are over-crowded. They spend their brief lives in crowded and ammonia-filled conditions, many of them so cramped that they can’t even turn around or spread a wing.
13. Animals on factory farms are tortured. Within days of birth, for example, chickens have their beaks seared off with a hot blade. Animals are hung upside down and their throats are sliced open, often while they’re fully conscious.
14. Animals on factory farms are treated like machines. They are pumped up with drugs, fed their own waste and forced to grow or produce as fast as possible. They are subjected to 24-hour artificial lighting while being crammed into tiny cages one on top of the other to make it easier to harvest.
15. We don’t need to eat animals! Most of us in the U.S. don’t eat animals because we must in order to survive. We eat them because we want to. We are subjecting animals to torture, damaging the environment unnecessarily and subjecting ourselves to greater risk of disease just to satisfy a desire, not a need.
You can get a totally balanced diet without eating meat. All vegetables contain protein and too much protein consumption is unhealthy. Grains, legumes and soybeans contain plenty of protein. Vegetarian foods do not have to be boring. Spice it up! For example, veggies and rice with some Teriyaki sauce is delicious and as filling as any meat dish you can think of while being far more healthy for you and easier on animals and the environment. Why not give a vegan diet a try and give our environment a break. Your body will thank you and so will the Earth!
The Perfect Girlfriend Must Have Empathy For Her Boyfriend
To become the perfect girlfriend you must have empathy for your boyfriend. Empathy is that you do not mind putting yourself in his shoes and feel whatever he is feeling about a situation. Everything can not be about you even though we all like to feel loved and cherished always. If you are to become a perfect girlfriend, then you must put your wants and desires aside to focus on the needs and wants of your boyfriend. You willingness to put your wants and desires on hold means that you are being humble and that is a good thing and requires self-control.
HOW BEST TO DEAL WITH MOOD SWINGS OF YOUR GIRL FRIEND
How to deal with girlfriends mood swings..
For thousands of years there have always been issues when it comes to understanding the opposite sex, we never fully have and we probably never truly will. But what we CAN do is pretend that we understand as to be just and to spare ourselves from dead end arguments or full thriving screaming matches.
To be honest guys, being a women myself, there are times when even i don’t understand my own irrational and/or extreme emotions. …Click here to read more
WHATS WITH WOMEN AND THEIR TOUGH QUESTIONS
Every man knows that at some point his wife or girlfriend is going to ask him some really tough questions: “Does my bum look too big in this?” or “Does this dress make me look fat?” She’s going to ask these questions and chances are quite good that he isn’t going to know how to answer him. After all, the question is a trap. Isn’t it?
Her Question has Nothing to Do with her Bum
Here’s the deal, guys. Your wife’s question has absolutely nothing to do with her bum. It doesn’t relate to her figure or in any other way to her appearance. She is asking you how you feel about her.
I know that this might come as a shock to some men. But let’s face it, gentlemen: If she wanted to know what she looked like in that dress, she would have asked one of her girlfriends. They are more likely to be honest with her and less likely to upset her. No indeed. What she is asking you is how you feel about her.
The Little Girl Inside
Every woman that I’ve ever known intimately had a little girl inside of her. Inside, she’s the little girl pirouetting for her father, dancing in a pink tutu and asking him “Daddy, do I look pretty? Tell me I look pretty! Daddy, watch me!”
Your wife or girlfriend wants to know that she has your full attention, and that you have eyes only for her. She knows, perhaps instinctively, that men are visual creatures, and she knows that out there in the big wide world there is a lot of competition! Your wife or girlfriend wants to know that to you, she is special. She wants to know that she is yours.
Be Her Mirror
Be your wife or girlfriend’s mirror. I’m sure that there are plenty in your house, in the bathroom, maybe on the back of the bedroom door. But those mirrors are different. You need to be her mirror.
When you tell your wife or what you see in her, over time she will begin to reflect back to you what you see. If you tell her that she is beautiful she will become beautiful. The more beautiful she feels she is in your eyes, the more likely she is to take the time to make herself even more beautiful and fit. If she feels that you genuinely appreciate her and see her as lovely, she is more likely to work out and to stay in shape, and you will often see an adjustment in her attitude towards you as well.
If you mirror back to her confidence and her own beauty, she will show that to you on the outside, too.
So How Do You Answer the Question?
First of all, don’t clam up. Not only do women hate this particular behavior, but it shows her that you are being defensive, and that is the wrong thing to do when faced with a sensitive question! Be easy, be casual, and go to her. Move to her, and unless she’s paranoid about something getting crushed (her dress, her hair), take her in your arms and hold her. Show her affection, no matter how you feel about the dress in question. Even if your wife or girlfriend weighs two hundred pounds and is out of shape. Hold her and reassure her of your life.
Tell her that you love her. Tell her how beautiful she is in your eyes. Tell her that she is the most beautiful woman you have ever met and that you can’t take your eyes off her.
Chances are you can’t see the difference in terms of whether or not a particular item of clothign makes her look “fat.” But if you think that it does, please be (gently) honest with her. Nothing bothers me more than to realize that I have been wearing a dress that makes me look thirty pounds heavier than I am, and to know that my husband didn’t say anything!
The best solution and way to go about this is honestly to suggest to her that she try another dress. Don’t criticize the one that she is wearing, but rather suggest one that you know suits her body and her coloring. Help her to choose something that you love. Tell her how it makes you feel when she wears it. Tell her she’ll be the belle of the ball if she wears this particular dress.
These types of suggestions soften the blow while also saving her any embarrassment if it turns out in the long run that the dress did make her look fat!
Every man knows that at some point his wife or girlfriend is going to ask him some really tough questions: “Does my bum look too big in this?” or “Does this dress make me look fat?” She’s going to ask these questions and chances are quite good that he isn’t going to know how to answer him. After all, the question is a trap. Isn’t it? …Click here to read more
15 REASONS NOT TO EAT MEAT
categories: Health living
There are many many reasons to stop eating meat. Nutritional, environmental, cruelty free living reasons. Global meat consumption has increased from under 50 million tons annually to over 200 million tons in the last 50 years. The amount of animal manure produced in the U.S. is 130 times greater than the amount of human waste. This is causing more environmental and health problems than ever seen before. Here are 15 good reasons to stop eating meat (or at least cut down):
Health Reasons
1. Lower risk of cancer. The Physicians Committee for Responsible Medicine has reported that vegetarians are less likely to get cancer by 25 to 50 percent.
2. Lower risk of heart disease. Researchers Dr. Dean Ornish and Dr. Caldwell Esselstyn have a program that includes a vegetarian diet and is currently one of the few programs that has been proven to reverse heart disease. A vegetarian diet reduces cholesterol.
3. Lower risk of osteoporosis. Studies have shown that too much protein in our diet causes loss of bone calcium. Meat eaters generally get far more protein than they need or can use.
4. Lower risk of kidney and gallstones. The calcium leached from the bones by the body’s efforts to neutralize the acids produce by too much protein intake can end up forming kidney stones and gall stones.
5. Factory farmed animals carry disease. According to the FDA poultry is the number one source of food-borne illness. Despite the heavy use of pesticides and antibiotics, up to 60% percent of chickens sold at the supermarket are infected with live salmonella bacteria. Approximately 30% of all pork products are contaminated with toxoplasmosis. We are increasingly at risk from highly contagious diseases like Mad Cow Disease and Foot and Mouth disease in sheep and cattle.
6. Factory-farmed animals contain toxic chemicals. Meat contains accumulations of pesticides and other chemicals up to 14 times more concentrated than those in plant foods. Half of all antibiotics used in the U.S. are used in farm animals and 90% of those are not used to treat infections but are instead used as growth promoters.
Environmental Reasons
7. Inefficient use of agriculture. 70% of U.S. grain production is used to feed farm animals. The grains and soybeans fed to animals to produce the amount of meat consumed by the average American in one year could feed seven people for the same period.
8. Inefficient use of water. It takes 2640 gallons of water to produce one pound of edible beef. The water used to raise animals for food is more than half the water used in the United States.
9. Inefficient use of energy.
Calories of fossil fuel needed to produce 1 calorie of protein in beef: 28.
Calories of fossil fuel needed to produce 1 calorie of protein in soybeans: 2.
10. Environmental Pollution. Raising animals for food is the biggest polluter of our water and topsoil. Factory farm animal waste pollutes the ground and groundwater horribly.
11. Destruction of natural habitat. It takes more land to raise animals for food than it does to produce the equivalent nutritional value by raising edible plants. Rain forests are being destroyed to make room for huge cattle ranches. Coyotes and other animals are poisoned and shot by western cattle ranchers who consider federal land to be their land for grazing.
Animal Rights Reasons
12. Animals on factory farms are over-crowded. They spend their brief lives in crowded and ammonia-filled conditions, many of them so cramped that they can’t even turn around or spread a wing.
13. Animals on factory farms are tortured. Within days of birth, for example, chickens have their beaks seared off with a hot blade. Animals are hung upside down and their throats are sliced open, often while they’re fully conscious.
14. Animals on factory farms are treated like machines. They are pumped up with drugs, fed their own waste and forced to grow or produce as fast as possible. They are subjected to 24-hour artificial lighting while being crammed into tiny cages one on top of the other to make it easier to harvest.
15. We don’t need to eat animals! Most of us in the U.S. don’t eat animals because we must in order to survive. We eat them because we want to. We are subjecting animals to torture, damaging the environment unnecessarily and subjecting ourselves to greater risk of disease just to satisfy a desire, not a need.
You can get a totally balanced diet without eating meat. All vegetables contain protein and too much protein consumption is unhealthy. Grains, legumes and soybeans contain plenty of protein. Vegetarian foods do not have to be boring. Spice it up! For example, veggies and rice with some Teriyaki sauce is delicious and as filling as any meat dish you can think of while being far more healthy for you and easier on animals and the environment. Why not give a vegan diet a try and give our environment a break. Your body will thank you and so will the Earth!
There are many many reasons to stop eating meat. Nutritional, environmental, cruelty free living reasons. Global meat consumption has increased from under 50 million tons annually to over 200 million tons in the last 50 years. The amount of animal manure produced in the U.S. is 130 times greater than the amount of human waste. This is causing more environmental and health problems than ever seen before. Here are 15 good reasons to stop eating meat (or at least cut down): …Click here to read more
5 THINGS NOT TO SAY ON A FIRST DATE(FOR LADIES)
Ladies, some of us talk too damned much. We tell Mr. Maybe things he doesn’t need to know until he becomes Mr. Probably. Maybe it’s genetic, I dunno. But whatever it is, it’s something that needs to be controlled during a first date. I know, I know. It’s hard to keep track of everything once the butterflies start moving and the wine starts flowing. But if you want to see Mr. Maybe a second time, you need to avoid the following conversation blunders. …Click here to read more
100 WAYS TO SHOW LOVE TO YOUR PARTNER
Everyone loves to be loved, and we all feel love differently. I feel loved when my husband helps out with the kids and the house or plans a getaway for just the two of us. Like most men, my husband likes to be shown love physically. Some of these ideas are romantic gestures while others are just little things you can do each day that will make a big difference to your companion. Whether you’re looking for date ideas or ways to show appreciation to your spouse, here are 100 ways to show your mate you care. …Click here to read more
TIPS TO ACHIEVE LIFELONG ROMANCE AND INTIMACY WITH YOR PARTNER BEYOND THE BED
Intimacy is more than a three letter word; it is drawing close to another human being in a way that two meld into one including soul and spirit. This kind of intimacy is not cultivated in bed, but in time spent together enjoying all facets of life. This hub presents seven tips on how to establish an everlasting bond with the love of your life and experience greater romance beyond the bed.
Practice Active Listening
The first tip to experiencing lifelong intimacy is to practice active listening. Active listening is engaging your whole being in the process of hearing and understanding the heart of your mate. For some it may mean taking notes in order to remain focused. For others, it will mean repeating back what was said and asking clarifying questions to make sure you received the message your lover wanted to convey. Experiencing romance beyond the bed starts with active listening. …Click here to read more
TOP ROMANCE TIPS FOR MEN YOU SHOULD KNOW
Never forget that a woman is a romantic. She enjoys wine, flowers and chocolates. Let her know that you too, remember this things… by speaking of them occasionally” Woody Allen
I firmly believe that it is not that men do not want to romance women; it is only that men do not understand its importance to women. When it comes to romance most men do not know what to do. This is understandable if we consider that men’s literature consists of action, gangster and horror novels, and technical books and sport magazines, while women are the biggest consumers of romantic novels, fashion and decoration magazines. Men and women seem to be interested in completely different things in everyday life and when they enter a new relationship they also enter it with different expectations. …Click here to read more
ADVICE FROM THE HEART TO OUR YOUNG MEN
There are lots of articles for young women that warn them away from potentially dangerous suitors. Women, so often seen as victims in relationships, have tons of advice at their fingertips from online articles, from mothers and friends and protective fathers. But you don’t see much advice for young men. All too often, young men are seen as predatory sociopaths out to destroy the self-esteem of every gentle lady they bump into. …Click here to read more
WHAT MEN LOVE MOST ABOUT WOMEN
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I love a good man. I have had good men as friends, boyfriends, and I was reared by one. As it turns out, the good women in my life, both married and single, tend to love good men also, and we started discussing some of the things we love about them. The disclaimer here is that some sweeping generalities have to be made for the purpose of prose. Everyone’s different, and this list is not comprehensive. In fun, for the women that love men, we have our reasons, here’s a rough ten. We LOVE:
I love a good man. I have had good men as friends, boyfriends, and I was reared by one. As it turns out,
HEALTH BENEFITS OF SEX
Now we have all heard the saying before, “Sex is not just good, it is good for you!” Before, women and men alike have scoffed at the idea, but stop where you are, and ladies hide this information from your men—it is true! After some serious digging to unearth any respectable truth to this saying, I stumbled upon five benefits to having sex that everyone should know about. So, the next time you are not quite in the mood but your partner is begging with those puppy dog eyes, remember this information and give them a hand… …Click here to read more
ABUSIVE RELATION: ARE YOU A VICTIM?
How to Tell if You are in an Abusive Relationship
A relationship feels good for both partners of the relationship especially when you are treated with dignity and respect. This good feeling can quickly become replaced by feelings of fear and doubt when abuse is present in the relationship. Physical abuse is the most common type of relationship abuse. It is most apparent by: …Click here to read more
HOW TO KEEP YOUR RELATION TOGETHER
How can I keep the fireworks going?
Relationships can be hard to deal with at times if you are totally different people you have to take the time and get to know someone because if you don’t it could hurt you in the long run. People change and all of a sudden you could find yourself saying what will I do next.Well ,never be in that position,always have a plan even if it’s going back home with mom that’s not so bad?
First ,Taking the time to get to know some one usually takes a little more time because there is so much in the unknown that you have to make sure of like secrets.Starting a new relationship brings out more secrets that one doesn’t want to explain anymore sometimes we just want things to be in the past and don’t want to revil it in our next relationship.Watch out for the pass information it could hurt you. …Click here to read more
ENDING A RELTIONSHIP: THE 5 STAGES OF GRIEF
Anyone who has experienced the death of a loved one and who has dealt with the pain of that experience by seeing a counselor or working through self-help workbooks will tell you that there are five stages of grief that you go through as you deal with this loss. What you may not know is that we go through some version of these five stages of grief every single time that we feel a loss even if there isn’t a death involved. One type of loss that all of us eventually experience is the loss of a romantic relationship that was very important to us. When we go through that experience, we go through those same stages of grief that we would go through if someone close to us had died.
Of course, the way that we process the breakup of a relationship isn’t quite the …Click here to read more
TOP REASONS WHY MEN CHEAT
Men and Why They Cheat..
Men cheat for many reasons, simple as that. More than often enough, men cheat on their significant others, not necessarily for sex (apparently, it is very minimal) but for emotional reasons. Men are very emotional creatures, even more than they would like us to think so. Sometimes, I have pondered the question myself, thinking to myself, are men MORE emotional than women? I think so..
Men need to feel good about themselves, to feel worthy and often, their emotional needs are overlooked in many relationships. …Click here to read more
WHAT WOMEN SHOULD WEAR TO JOB INTERVIEWS
categories: Woman Tags: JOB INTERVIEWS
Here are some little tips to keep in mind when dressing for the interview:
• Yeah, it might look good, but if you’d wear it to a date or dancing, you shouldn’t wear it now.
• Suit: Wear a two-piece matched suit. Pantsuits are beneficial in that you don’t have to worry about being exposed when sitting or getting out of vehicles. They should be creased and tailored and not too tight. …Click here to read more
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP: THE DOS AND DONTS
Suviving a long distance relashionship is a challenge
Having been involved with two long distance relationships I can know understand what works and what doesn’t work. I will give you the run down, the dos and don’ts to making a long distance relationship work. It’s hard but there are a few things that long distance lovers often do that destroy their relationship. …Click here to read more
HOW TO STAY FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE
How to avoid Marital Infidelity
Marital Infidelity can break a relationship. In fact it is the most common cause of a break up or Divorce. The way out of this is to be faithful to your spouse or partner and develop the trust in relationship that can help the marriage to survive. When talking on the issue of faithfulness I question which comes to the mind of several people is that ‘Is it possible to stay faithful to a Spouse in today’s society?’ My answer to this question is that ‘Like today, Temptations and Opportunities were there yesterday too. Staying faithful or not to a spouse is a relationship choice. If you want to stay faithful you can.’ …Click here to read more
TOP 5 THINGS WOMEN WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP
The top five things a women want out of a relationship
Five things a women want out of a relationship. 1.Honesty 2.Love 3. understanding 4.Respect 5.commitment.
Being a women involved in pass relationships, there were many things; that was important to me in a relationship . I will start out by saying that honesty tops the chart, with me, honesty was and has been the number one thing ; that I look for in a man. I believe if a man can be honest with me and tell me the truth, that means, he’s trustworthy. …Click here to read more
TOP 10 WOMEN YOU SHOULD NEVER DATE
Miss Gold Digger – obvious, but this can go deeper than you realize. Once she thinks you’re worth something, she may stop doing anything including work and school because she thinks she’s got it made. She’ll steal your car if it’s nicer than hers and will even put her bikini waxes on your credit card (awkward!). …Click here to read more
TIPS FOR STARTING A NEW RELATIONSHIP
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One of the things that always surprises me is how relationships can happen out of the blue. As a curmudgeon who often goes like a surly camel through dating dry spells of three to four years, each time a relationship crashes and burns, I think it will be my last. But life always seems to throw a curveball and the next thing I know I’m smack dab in the middle of something I would never have expected even last week. …Click here to read more
SEX ADDICTION:TODAYS MODERN PROBLEM
categories: sex talk
An addiction is a problem most today face, which comes to you in many different forms and can change your life dramatically if a true fix isn’t sought. For many this addiction can be drugs, alcohol, cigarettes; or sex but I will mainly focus on the sex as this is a subject rarely discussed yet more and more couples are being caught up in the middle of the deceit a partner can bring to the relationship if nothing is done to change it. …Click here to read more
Vitamin Supplements to Boost Sex Drive
It’s amazing to hear so many married couples openly admit that they are involved in sexless relationships. Vitamin Supplements to Boost Sex Drive was written in the interest of providing information to concerned individuals that would like to spice up their love lives and perhaps bring back some of that ‘ooooh-la-la chemistry’ of yester-years.
Some couples have publicly admitted to not having sex for up to 2 years at a time. Within recent months Oprah and Dr. Oz have been attempting to shed some insight on the psychology and or physical reasons so many couples are finding themselves in such a rut.
…Click here to read more
SAYING I LOVE YOU:WORDS OR ACTIONS
Saying I Love You with Actions
Actions Speak Louder than Words
The simplest way to tell someone that you love them is to simply say “I love you.” The more often you tell them that, the better. Of course the words have to be sincere and, to really be effective, should be backed up with actions that demonstrate your love.
Speaking as a man, it can be difficult, at least at first, to utter the words I love you. For one thing, when you first tell a woman that you love her you are taking the relationship to a higher level and that implies the possibility of a commitment which can be a scary thought at first. It can also feel awkward when you first start using these words, but it gets easier, which is good because women appreciate it when you keep reminding them that you love them (men do too, but we usually don’t like to admit it). Of course, once you are married it becomes very important to keep saying love you regularly as that helps to keep the spark in the marriage.
While saying the words often, and sincerely, is very important, you must also say it with actions in order to give the words meaning. Surprise gifts – flowers, candy, etc. – given for no particular reason is one way to put action behind the words. However, this can become routine and hollow if done too often and without much thought. A better way is by paying attention to the little things. Pay attention to your spouse and get to know what he/she likes or dislikes – especially the little things. Break some of those habits that annoy the one you love. …Click here to read more
FIRST TIME SEX:WHAT IS THE FUSS ABOUT?
The First Time
Although sex is one of the most natural of human instincts, we find it difficult to talk about openly and honestly, we get embarrassed at the mere mention of the word sex and although we want to know more, we keep silent about it for fear of offending or embarrassing others.
For most of us the first time we actually learn a little about sex is in high school, either in Biology class or in a sexual awareness class.
These classes teach us as teenagers about the changes to our bodies during puberty and the basic mechanics of what to do during sexual intercourse, they also teach us, how to prevent pregnancy and sexually related disease through the use of contraception and outline the various methods of contraception. …Click here to read more
ENGAGEMENT RINGS:SYMBOL OF COMMITMENT
categories: Marriage Tags: engament rings, eternity rings, heirloom rings, tattoo rings, tension rings
The Most Beautiful Engagement Rings
The most beautiful engagement rings are the most obvious symbols of a couple’s commitment to each other. It is an extremely personal display of affection, and your rings should be or represent something you find beautiful, and want to associate with your significant other.
Usually the woman’s engagement ring is the more expensive and flashy of the two, but of course both men and women can have beautiful wedding rings, also.
Whether you are looking for traditional diamond rings or are considering venturing out into the wide world of wedding ring styles, from simple platinum bands to elaborate and sentimental old-fashioned or heirloom rings, this guide will show you some of the many ring options you have, as well as things to consider about each style of wedding ring.
Traditional Diamond Rings
Diamonds are a girl’s best friend…Right? Well, sometimes. It’s true that many women can only fathom a beautiful diamond ring, the bigger the better, on their ring finger. Diamonds are lovely, of course, but they are also the most expensive option. My biggest advice on this matter if you have your heart set on a diamond engagement or wedding ring? Take a step back and try to figure out how much of that desire is what you really want, and how much is what society thinks you should have. Or your friends. Remember, it’s your wedding, not your friends’, mother’s, or relatives’.
Prospective fiances are advised to spend at least a couple months’ salary on an engagement ring. Be aware, however, that it is largely the jewlery distributors who are giving us this advice. Diamond rings can get very expensive very fast, but the range is so great that it’s difficult to give a price estimate. CNNMoney states that the 2005 engagement ring average price was $4,146.
To get an even better idea of how much money your dream ring will cost, I recommend Amazon.com’s Create Your Own Ring feature. It’s extremely extensive and can really help you get a feel for cut options and prices. You may able to buy a size you wouldn’t otherwise be able to afford if you work with the jewel-setter to craft an engagement ring with any flaws concealed. There are many tricks of the trade to make a diamond look shinier, bigger, and better than it actually is. Talk to a jeweler you can trust to make your engagment or wedding ring perfect for you.
Tension Rings
For a more modern twist on the engagement ring, consider a tension ring. Instead of being held in place by clasps and prongs, these elegant alternatives stay in place by the sheer pressure of each end of the ring.
Nothing says they have to be diamond, either. Why not consider getting your birth stone in it, instead, or another gem that means something to you and your betrothed? Because of the high tension involved, however, you will need to make sure your jewel can withstand the pressure, or it might need to be attached with hidden prongs or fasteners for a faux-tension look. …Click here to read more
UNDERSTANDING MEN AND SEX
categories: Intimacy Tags: Men, MEN AND SEX, men sexual interest, men think, RELATIONSHIP TIPS, SEX, SEXUAL INTEREST, women think
Men and sex should be synonymous as reports reveal that men think about sex about ever five minutes whereas women think of sex much less often. However some men lose sex interest for various reasons. No conclusive report was available as to extent of the loss of sexual interest but is prevalent with ED as a matter of aging.
As most women would think most of the time, it is their fault why men lose sex interest. Losing sex interest can be caused as aforementioned medical reasons so women should not take all of the blame. Women making themselves more attractive as the go to solution to get a man interested in sex again is a given but without knowing the real reason for him losing interest in sex, it is better to do just have an honest conversation about the loss of sexual interest. …Click here to read more
Tips for Marital Bliss and Lifelong Harmony
categories: Marriage Tags: happy marriage, lifelong harmony, marital bliss, marriage secrets, RELATIONSHIP TIPS, secrets of a happy marriage
For all of our collective misgivings about the institution of marriage, we seem to be quite fond of jumping into it. Some sources say 90% of adults in the civilized world get married at least once in their lives.
The problem is, less than half of us stay married.
While all of this might sound just fine to wedding planners and divorce attorneys, it’s just not that great for the rest of us. Divorce is incredibly stressful – on us, on our children, on our families… It somehow doesn’t sound like a big deal anymore, since so many couples end up getting divorced, but the truth is, it rips people’s lives apart!
It’s hard for us to stay married these days, when divorce is so accessible – but no matter how trying marriage can be, it’s almost always the better option. Couples who stay married for life tend to be happier, live longer, and stay healthier. And even though you and your spouse will undoubtedly have your disagreements, and may even need a bit of relationship help now and again, there’s a lot to be said for being able to share your live with one special person. …Click here to read more
